How long have you been a professional Dominant?
I began My work as a Dominatrix in 2015, and have over 8 years of experience. During My formative years, I also worked as a professional submissive, which helped Me better understand the needs and headspace of those I dominate.
Why do You require a deposit?
Your deposit indicates to Me that you are serious and will follow My session protocol. Furthermore, I take pride in My sessions and they require several hours of time for Me to look My best and make arrangements to ensure an incredible experience. Deposits are non-refundable and non-negotiable. No deposit, no play.
What is Your cancellation policy?
Appointments take time and effort to prepare for. If you must cancel your appointment, please be aware of my cancellation policies and fees.
24hrs notice: your deposit may be put towards your next rescheduled appointment (if you reschedule within one month). After one month, you will be required to send a new deposit for a future appointment.
12hrs notice: your deposit will cover the room rental and will not be put toward your next appointment.
4hrs notice: you will be required to send Me the full session tribute if you would like to be considered for future sessions
No-call no-show: you will be blacklisted unless I receive the full tribute plus an additional 100 for wasting My time. Two strikes and you’re out.
I cannot afford your tribute. Are you willing to negotiate lower rates?
I will not negotiate lower rates, and will disengage and block you if you attempt to do so. If you would like to session with Me, it is your responsibility to save up to afford My tribute; it is not My responsibility to shift My boundaries or compromise My integrity to accommodate you.
I do, however, offer one sliding scale slot in My schedule per month for a BIPOC individual who is unable to afford My tribute rates. If this applies to you, you have My permission to send Me a respectful and professional email to inquire.
Am I expected to tip You at the end of our session?
If you enjoyed your time with Me and the service I provide, tipping is a great way to demonstrate your reverence and appreciation! Think of this service as you would a hair appointment or being served at a restaurant—if you received great service, a tip ensures that I know you valued our time together.
What types of gifts do you enjoy?
Gifts are an excellent way to make a great first impression with your Mistress. I absolutely adore gifts that demonstrate thought and attention to detail.
Flowers—Calla lilies, orchids, dahlias, and wild roses
Chocolate—Dark & high quality (plain, orange, Mexican, sea salt)
Wine—Sauvignon blanc, Champagne (brut), or Bordeaux
Liquor—Bourbon (Woodford Reserve, Basil Hayden’s, Eagle Rare) or calvados
Candles—Capri Blue Volcano, L’Etang Noir, or L’Artisan Muse in scent “Energy”
Lingerie (click here for measurements)—Bordelle, Honey Birdette, Carine Gilson, or Thistle & Spire
While I love surprises, I am particular about My lingerie and would appreciate you asking My preferences (or for multiple options so you can still surprise Me)
Shoes—Frye (Size 10.5/11), Louboutin (Size 40.5/41), Valentino (Size 10.5/11)
Gift cards—Let Me shop My favorite stores!
Ulta
Lyft
Bordelle
Honey Birdette
The Stockroom
Do you offer sexual services?
No, sex is not and will never be provided as part of a session, no matter what. Any attempt to negotiate or bully Me will result in My immediate disengagement and you will be blocked.
Do you offer double sessions with other Dommes?
Yes! I revel in the opportunity to session with other Dommes that I know and trust. I offer both double (and triple!) Domme sessions in which We both dominate you, and I offer double sessions where I switch or sub to one of both of you! Please see here for a list of the friends that I work with.
Do you offer outcalls?
I offer outcalls to trusted regular clients. If you would like to be considered for a future outcall session, you must demonstrate that you are reliable and trustworthy.
Do you offer meet and greets?
Yes! Nervous about booking a session, or wish to get to know Me before we play? A meet and greet is the perfect introduction. Please email Me to request a lunch or dinner date with Me. You will be responsible for covering My travel expenses, the restaurant bill, and My meet & greet tribute.
May I drink alcohol or use drugs during our session?
Absolutely no drugs or alcohol will be permitted during play. Impairment is not conducive to risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) and I have no desire to session with someone without their faculties. This policy if for your safety as well as Mine—I want you cognizant so that you can clearly express your needs, interests, boundaries, limits, and safewords.
Do you offer coaching and educational services?
Yes! In addition to professional Domination, I provide coaching services and sexuality education. I have 12 years experiences as a sexuality educator and have both a Masters in Education and a Masters in Social Work. If you would like Me to be a guest speaker or run a workshop, please email Me to set up a consultation.
I also offer limited mentorship slots for those interested in pursuing a career in Domination. Please inquire via email to learn more.